What would you do?

[InbetweenDreams]

I fell in love with a closeted man....

I really hate to agree but that is and will be the problem. He might be an awesome guy and all these things but if he is working on his sexual orientation you're probably going to end up heartbroken before he gets that sorted out.

I would refrain from anything romantic or sexual with this guy. If you think you can handle being friends only and wait and see what he does, that's up to you. Your best bet is to keep looking, there are plenty of good guys out there, yeah I know finding them will be difficult but hang in there and don't get hung up on someone who is going to hurt you or cause you grief.