10-25-2016, 06:19 AM
[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION] I met two kind of people that fits in the definition you gave of "social butterfly".. there are the really nice people, who have a cool vibe, it's always in a positive attitude that appeals everybody, everybody likes to talk to this person because they feel confidence and a non judgemental behavior. the second one... the hypocrites, the fake people that are always changing their personality depending of the people they are surrounded by, those people usually use nice words in your face but are always gossiping in your back. And yes you're right, was even hard to me to know the difference between the kinds.
Confessing myself I usually don't like to met people, between the last two years I lost 99% of my friends by difference circumstances, speaking with real numbers I lost all my friends less 1 literally. and those friends I lose was friendships for years (almost 8-10), and I never been the social butterfly, and I tend to use a considerable amount of time in selecting the people I can trust. So in fact the "friends" I lost was the most I trusted. that's was another thing that speeded my railway to blueness, sadly in fact I discovered that I was alone and that I had to recover from that state, by my own. and this created an egoistic way of seeing the life, that I'm still trying to correct. and yes that's is added to the fact that I don't like to met new "close" people because I don't wanna have the sensation of losing someone again.
And btw, yes you're right it's nice to feel someone is really trying for you, it's a lovely sensation that made you feel appreciated lol
ah... it's funny how life treats different people and how this push you in different pads, and modifies the way you see even the same things.
Confessing myself I usually don't like to met people, between the last two years I lost 99% of my friends by difference circumstances, speaking with real numbers I lost all my friends less 1 literally. and those friends I lose was friendships for years (almost 8-10), and I never been the social butterfly, and I tend to use a considerable amount of time in selecting the people I can trust. So in fact the "friends" I lost was the most I trusted. that's was another thing that speeded my railway to blueness, sadly in fact I discovered that I was alone and that I had to recover from that state, by my own. and this created an egoistic way of seeing the life, that I'm still trying to correct. and yes that's is added to the fact that I don't like to met new "close" people because I don't wanna have the sensation of losing someone again.
And btw, yes you're right it's nice to feel someone is really trying for you, it's a lovely sensation that made you feel appreciated lol
ah... it's funny how life treats different people and how this push you in different pads, and modifies the way you see even the same things.
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