10-27-2016, 12:42 PM
One thing you have to keep in mind. People trash talk others to make themselfs feel better.
Especially over the internet.
So remember that, and you should be fine.
Have a "No fucks given" attitude to such bullshit. It's what YOU think of yourself that matters. And if you don't think much of yourself, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Like me:
I had been living pretty much unconcious for 8 years (20-28). One day I felt the need to change, wanted to become more social. So joined my dad at bowling, then joined the club he is in.
For about a year, that was enough. But one day, near the end of the year, I had a panic attack and started feeling like I need to start trying to get work.
So I got an appointment with the social services thing here, got into a kindergarten, worked there for 6 months. And I've gained some confident. Unfortunatly that part of the program I'm in is over. Now I'm in another department, which I'm so not motivated to show up to.
So I might try and get a job at that nerd store with the guy I talked about in another thread. I'm pretty sure I'll want to go there each day that I have to work there. It seems like a fun place to work, at least until the end of the summer break next year.
(Need to get an education, still want to work with kids).
My overweightness is keeping me down too. So I want to do something about that, but with motivation down, it's hard
And my damn left leg is in the way atm.
Find something you're good at = gain confident.
Working out is also a good way to gain confident I hear.
If you don't mind it, try finding a sport you might like.
Especially over the internet.
So remember that, and you should be fine.
Have a "No fucks given" attitude to such bullshit. It's what YOU think of yourself that matters. And if you don't think much of yourself, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Like me:
I had been living pretty much unconcious for 8 years (20-28). One day I felt the need to change, wanted to become more social. So joined my dad at bowling, then joined the club he is in.
For about a year, that was enough. But one day, near the end of the year, I had a panic attack and started feeling like I need to start trying to get work.
So I got an appointment with the social services thing here, got into a kindergarten, worked there for 6 months. And I've gained some confident. Unfortunatly that part of the program I'm in is over. Now I'm in another department, which I'm so not motivated to show up to.
So I might try and get a job at that nerd store with the guy I talked about in another thread. I'm pretty sure I'll want to go there each day that I have to work there. It seems like a fun place to work, at least until the end of the summer break next year.
(Need to get an education, still want to work with kids).
My overweightness is keeping me down too. So I want to do something about that, but with motivation down, it's hard
And my damn left leg is in the way atm.
Find something you're good at = gain confident.
Working out is also a good way to gain confident I hear.
If you don't mind it, try finding a sport you might like.
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