Gay & Fat

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Everyone has their preferences. I think a lot of guys like [MENTION=24036]Ibex[/MENTION] say talk trash to make themselves feel better (the screenshot I posted of Mr. Asshat). I also think a lot of guys have expectations that who they date looks like a model, or say a twink.

I just hate it when guys message me in order to mess with me or make themselves feel better by manipulating me.

Looking back in hindsight I don't believe I've had a boyfriend who actually did care about me, meaning there was something else they were after and it was sex or freeloading off of me...but that's not relating to this.

I think a lot of it is just self loathing, you hate yourself because you want to look a certain way so that either more guys, or some guy will find you more appealing. It's easy to do. Here in the US there's basically a "war" against fat people. Claiming that fat people are just lazy people who stuff too much food in their mouths and drive healthcare costs up... However, while that is popular belief and makes sense and in a lot of cases true. Not all "fat" people are unhealthy...