Not sure how to go about this guy

[Gemini]

Okay, so I'm one of those guys who doesn't really have the time or inclination to do much texting. My job is such that I can't be on my phone all shift. If a guy texts me, I may not get back to him right away, maybe not til the next day. It doesn't mean I'm not interested or don't want to talk to him, just that I can't while at work.

And TBH, I find guys who text constantly annoying. We don't have to be in constant touch for me to prove how I feel. If I tell you I like you and want to get to know you, I mean it. I don't feel like i have to text you all the time to prove it.

I would say two things. First, right now, step back and wait for him to reply. Then, when you see him again, bring up the topic of texting. Ask him if he prefers to just text for a reason, like to confirm a date. Is he like me and maybe doesn't like aimless texting?

I've had guys text me like 6 times before I'm able to get back to them and it makes me feel pressured and annoyed and I think of them as insecure.

He wants to take it slow, and that makes perfect sense. He's being cautious. You can either meet him on his own terms, or move on.

He said he wants to get to know you, and I'm sure he means it. You need to relax and give him the space to learn to feel comfortable with you.