Not sure how to go about this guy

[Insertnamehere]

You should really let him make the next move.

There can be a number of things why he doesn't reply. Whether right or wrong in saying what you said, at least he knows your stance, so that's good. It means the ball is on his side of the field.

Be patient and wait. But, don't wait indefinitely. I mean if it's been a month and nothing happens (not even a "really busy lately" message) then probably you can start letting it go.

I do understand you in one thing. I often don't know when it's too much or too little. I've often fallen into both these extremes and I didn't know how to find that balance, that middle ground.

With one guy I was texting, we were texting pretty much everyday. We were both comfortable with that. It was mutual. Not every guy will be like this, maybe you won't even be like this with someone else. And the reasons why can be many.

I've found myself so outrageously busy at work for consecutive weeks at a time, every now and then that I can understand if someone else goes through the same, so unless it's not indefinitelty, I don't have many problems in toning down contact and waiting.