11-14-2016, 01:29 PM
Thanks for all the advice guys!
Just a short update:
So I dropped him a text last night just a really simple 'Hey, how was your weekend?'. He replied saying it had been ok and he cooked for his flat mates, so I took that opportunity to lead onto asking if he still fancied getting something to eat or something this week, as it seemed like a natural progression. He said he's busy all this week and apologised for being a pain, but next week looks better for him. I said next week sounds good, and asked if any day was best - I'm at uni myself and I work, so I do actually kinda need to know, and it'd be nice to have a date to look forward to. Anyhow he hasn't replied to that so still not sure.
Communicating with him is hard work, and I feel like it shouldn't be like that? Seems the balls in his court again, but I feel it's not going to go anywhere to be honest. We'll see. I totally get going slow, personally I just think a tad more effort needs to come from his side.
Just a short update:
So I dropped him a text last night just a really simple 'Hey, how was your weekend?'. He replied saying it had been ok and he cooked for his flat mates, so I took that opportunity to lead onto asking if he still fancied getting something to eat or something this week, as it seemed like a natural progression. He said he's busy all this week and apologised for being a pain, but next week looks better for him. I said next week sounds good, and asked if any day was best - I'm at uni myself and I work, so I do actually kinda need to know, and it'd be nice to have a date to look forward to. Anyhow he hasn't replied to that so still not sure.
Communicating with him is hard work, and I feel like it shouldn't be like that? Seems the balls in his court again, but I feel it's not going to go anywhere to be honest. We'll see. I totally get going slow, personally I just think a tad more effort needs to come from his side.
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