Not sure how to go about this guy

[Flyerboy95]

I think he definitely knows you're interested, so there should be no worry about that now

I know what you mean. My dating experience is fairly limited compared to some, but unless the first date was a complete disaster I always go for a second date, some of the nerves have subsided a little by then and you see a little bit more of the real person. You have only been on one date after all. If the conversation between dates still doesn't flow after a second date, then I'd be thinking about calling it a day. I do think you definitely find out a lot more about someone and whether you are actually both interested in each other after a second date IMO.

Yeah he must know I'm interested by now haha!

My dating experience is limited too. I actually really enjoyed the date with him last week, I felt relaxed with him almost from the second he sat in my car when I picked him up, which was nice. Looking back now, I don't think I picked up on just how nervous he was, stumbling over his words quite a bit etc. As he's said, it's very new to him so I've got to just respect that - as I've said going slow is fine, it's when you've come to a stop that I get a bit fed up. I think he's also got to appreciate that if he's interested in me, he needs to make some effort. Wanting to go slow doesn't excuse making no effort at all, in my opinion. Only time will tell though.

If we do go on a date again, do you think actually asking him about his texting habits is a good idea? Because at the moment I'm just second guessing a lot of this.