Not sure how to go about this guy

[Flyerboy95]

You are second guessing a lot of this indeed, but at the same time I don't think, on date 2, it would be a good idea to ask him about why he is slow to reply or doesn't contact you for a day or so. It is very early days and you asking this could be misconstrued as confrontational IMO. Maybe a question for later if you have been on a few dates and things still feel the same. Because by then I really would be questioning whether he was into me or not. It is still very early, so personally, I wouldn't bring that up at this point.

Yeah maybe it's not best to ask that then - this is what I mean by it not just flowing though, I feel I have to really think my every move through and weigh up what reaction it might cause, and actually it takes the fun out of what should be a fun process of getting to know somebody.

We'll see if he follows through now and makes some effort. About a month ago before he got back in touch last week, when we almost met but he was seeing friends or not, it was a month since I heard back from him - I have a funny feeling the same will happen again, but I'm a pessimist after all