How can I become comfortable being gay?

[eastofeden]

The weird thing is that I tend to get crushes on men but become aroused by women in person.

Well....I can relate to that but I don't think it is wierd (I used to), I have always been gay and came out in HS about five minutes after it occured to me and I never had a sexual identity situation but I have always had "crushes" on women...just missing the sexual attraction part but I think they are all sexy as hell. I still hav a crush on the same women I first had a crush on...Katharine Ross. My other crushes: Gina Gershon, Drew Barrymore, Milla Jovovich, Sigourney Weaver, Dyan Cannon, Carole King, Mariska Hargitay, Maura Tierney, Angela Basset, Parker Posey, Lili Taylor, Lily Tomlin and my newest crush is Kristen Chenowithmile: