05-14-2020, 12:37 AM
You say that you haven't been interested in having sex with your husband, why? Is the feeling mutual from his point of view?
Do you both still love each other?
Either way, you've crossed a HUGE line with what you've done. Even if you were to break up with your husband, you're still in the family by being involved with his brother.
You need to figure out what it is that you want, exactly. If it means leaving your husband, be aware that just because you do that, it may not mean getting into a relationship with his brother. In fact, I'd be willing to bet you wouldn't end up with him anyway, and I'd advise against it.
If he's willing to do his brother dirty that way, what makes you think it won't happen to you in the future?
Do you both still love each other?
Either way, you've crossed a HUGE line with what you've done. Even if you were to break up with your husband, you're still in the family by being involved with his brother.
You need to figure out what it is that you want, exactly. If it means leaving your husband, be aware that just because you do that, it may not mean getting into a relationship with his brother. In fact, I'd be willing to bet you wouldn't end up with him anyway, and I'd advise against it.
If he's willing to do his brother dirty that way, what makes you think it won't happen to you in the future?