What's on Your Mind

[InbetweenDreams]

I mainly want to know where to move to first. It mainly needs to be:
1) far away from my state
2) gay-friendly
3) has jobs in my field of work
4) far away from my state
Nothing personal against my state, it actually meets criteria 2 and 3, but I need to move far, far, faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar way from my crazy family and everyone around me who judges me because of my family.

So how far away, realistically, do you have to be so that your family is not so likely to come banging on your door?