10-17-2020, 08:14 PM
@InbetweenDreams  I hope that your mother makes a speedy recovery.
Regarding your job, they shouldn't discipline you for a family emergency. As for you leaving, if you're not happy, then perhaps it's time to move on. I do question whether with the pandemic if now is the time to look for something new.  Give it some thought, you may want to hold off on that.
As for your father, it seems that there is an amount of denial there. It may be time to sit with them both and discuss a system like "life alert" where they can wear an alert button to push if there is an incident.
Regarding your job, they shouldn't discipline you for a family emergency. As for you leaving, if you're not happy, then perhaps it's time to move on. I do question whether with the pandemic if now is the time to look for something new.  Give it some thought, you may want to hold off on that.
As for your father, it seems that there is an amount of denial there. It may be time to sit with them both and discuss a system like "life alert" where they can wear an alert button to push if there is an incident.