03-11-2021, 11:04 PM
Hi
Firstly sorry to hear/read the above; being ghosted like this hurts when you have invested time into someone that then gets stopped abruptly.
I don’t think there is ever a quick fix for these situations whether it be a long-term relationship, friendship, even a fling etc where an attachment is formed. Time is the healer here. What can help though is throwing yourself into distractions and interests. I know it’s difficult at present with Covid but spend as much time as you can talking to friends/family through whatever means, do what interests you.. read, gaming, art, whatever you enjoy doing. Emphasis on the keeping up the social side as it’s when we are alone and start to think too much that these things play on the mind and feel worse.
Give it time and it will be okay
Firstly sorry to hear/read the above; being ghosted like this hurts when you have invested time into someone that then gets stopped abruptly.
I don’t think there is ever a quick fix for these situations whether it be a long-term relationship, friendship, even a fling etc where an attachment is formed. Time is the healer here. What can help though is throwing yourself into distractions and interests. I know it’s difficult at present with Covid but spend as much time as you can talking to friends/family through whatever means, do what interests you.. read, gaming, art, whatever you enjoy doing. Emphasis on the keeping up the social side as it’s when we are alone and start to think too much that these things play on the mind and feel worse.
Give it time and it will be okay

Gossip is the Devil’s telephone; best just to hang up.