Annoyance...

[InbetweenDreams]

Lol sounds like me. Fair play to him. Sounds like he likes old hoofties. If it's his hobby let him be, and if he likes he's job well let him be, life isn't all about money.

I'm going to sound like an asshole here, but did you read the thread. I'm not controlling him. I'm not telling him that he can't piss away his money on this stuff. I know you didn't read the thread because I have said several times he hates his job, he complains about how shitty of a job it is, how poorly the owners treat him and yes it pisses me off hearing that he deal with all that and yes I have been encouraging him to look for another job, but I am not going to do it all for him. So it is annoying to listen to the complaining when he does nothing about it.

Why is everyone on here who gives advice jump to conclusions. You know, what I give advice on here I try to understand that I really don't know much about what the person is really asking/telling beyond the few sentences or paragraphs the wrote, so I try to not be too judgey, but when I ask for advice on here I'm a fucking terrible person. I'm really fucking tired on this shit on GS.

To be honest if you don't like the things he likes maybe you two aren't right for one another. Being controlling is a big turn off for me.

It has nothing to do with me not liking the things he likes. I'm not fucking controlling him for fucks sake. I'm not telling him he can't buy cars, stay at his job. Am I supposed to pretend that him doing these things is going to lead to a long term relationship?

I really regret ever asking for advice on here. See, I asked for advice on all this because I am trying to not control him or otherwise be unreasonable.