What's on Your Mind

[Jay]

I think I'm going to end up as one of those jaded gay men, online dating sucks. I've had long conversations with 5 guys now that really seemed to be going somewhere and they all just stopped messages me back

Holy crap, I haven't seen you for ages. Nice seeing you again, @ceez

Ghosting sucks. I've had a few too. So don't feel bad. There's nothing wrong with you. You'll eventually meet Mr. Right.

Speaking of ghosting - While I've been ghosted a few times, I did it once to someone else too. This fitness model who happens to be a violin player for national orchestra. He is your classic fitness pinup boy - pecs, six abs etc featured in fitness magazines. He approached me and we had a good start. Since he's into fitness, I decided to share my obese story and showed him my old super obese photos. He laughed at them. I was embarrassed. He eventually said sorry for laughing but his attitude didn't sit right with me so I ignored him after that.