Annoyance...

[ChadCoxRox]

Making an informed decision based on facts, realistic expectations and common sense cannot be inferred, in any sort of way, as being a cold-hearted SOB. For me, life's too short to be in a relationship that seems to focus on being encumbered rather than uplifted and mutual. There does appear to be some irrational drama confusing the matter but I see it's an effort to piece together ALL the information hoping for some sort of understanding. You've talked it out right here. If it seems like a duck, quacks like a duck, what's the question?