Ok, so a guy is coming over to my house (for the first time)

[ottawaguy04]

Hey! Congrats on finding someone who you seem to have so much in common with. I don't know what he expects to happen, but you shouldn't rush into anything you don't want to do... if you feel like you want to have some condoms around just in case then great, but even if you do have them around, that doesn't mean that you have to do anything. If it turns out that you both want something to happen then great, but if not then don't feel weird about saying you're not ready yet.

Personally I would keep the condoms ready just in case -- you don't want to be caught without them if you do end up wanting something to happen with him.