08-19-2012, 12:02 AM
I have managed to talk to several gay men about bisexual men. All of them seem to paint bisexual men as ashamed users. Before I found gayspeak I was on a similar site for bi men. They all seem to be completely obsessed with intercourse with another man.
The gay friends I have spoken with were jilted by their bisexual dating. One guy even discribe his experience with a bi man as though he was treated like a sex toy. Others said their bi dates were with men who were married to women, had kids even. But lied about it. That just struck me as very sad. It has made things quite hard for a guy like me. If I met a good guy, and we ended up loveing each other enough to be in a committed relationship, I would be gay, same goes for a woman.
Has anybody here had a nasty experience dating bi or *wink nudge* "straight" men.
The gay friends I have spoken with were jilted by their bisexual dating. One guy even discribe his experience with a bi man as though he was treated like a sex toy. Others said their bi dates were with men who were married to women, had kids even. But lied about it. That just struck me as very sad. It has made things quite hard for a guy like me. If I met a good guy, and we ended up loveing each other enough to be in a committed relationship, I would be gay, same goes for a woman.
Has anybody here had a nasty experience dating bi or *wink nudge* "straight" men.
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