06-19-2007, 09:41 PM
Hello
I have only joined this forum just to answer this question, that only gay people can help me with. I'll warn you now, it's a little bit long! I am straight, well, at least I think I am.
I am only 14, and go to a school in Surrey. I have got the bus to school with a lad my age for a few years now and have always been great friends. In the last six months he has come out, and we act no different around one another.
A friend of ours said that we made 'the perfect couple' and now rumours are spreading about my sexuality as well. I did reveal to this friend however that I would turn if I fell in love with this guy on the bus. I'd say that although I can be 'one of the lads' on the football pitch, I am compassionate and thoughtful, and I have qwerky things about me that may also be regarded as camp.
To make things even more complicated, my best friend said that this guy actually does fancy me. I have been in the same position with a girl not long before and I ended up ruining my chances with her with what I said thereafter.
This guy on the bus is sweet, funny, caring, slim and a great friend. I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him, but I'm still not sure if he feels the same way, as he has openly denied any feelings for me to my face, but behind my back, it is to the contrary.
As I said, I really do think the world of him, but like a little sister, not a boyfriend. Or do I? Hence my name being 'confused_lad'. I would really appreciate an opinion on this matter- as every time I see him, I've not the foggiest on what to say or do.
Thank you very much for your time, if you have bothered to read it all!
I have only joined this forum just to answer this question, that only gay people can help me with. I'll warn you now, it's a little bit long! I am straight, well, at least I think I am.
I am only 14, and go to a school in Surrey. I have got the bus to school with a lad my age for a few years now and have always been great friends. In the last six months he has come out, and we act no different around one another.
A friend of ours said that we made 'the perfect couple' and now rumours are spreading about my sexuality as well. I did reveal to this friend however that I would turn if I fell in love with this guy on the bus. I'd say that although I can be 'one of the lads' on the football pitch, I am compassionate and thoughtful, and I have qwerky things about me that may also be regarded as camp.
To make things even more complicated, my best friend said that this guy actually does fancy me. I have been in the same position with a girl not long before and I ended up ruining my chances with her with what I said thereafter.
This guy on the bus is sweet, funny, caring, slim and a great friend. I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him, but I'm still not sure if he feels the same way, as he has openly denied any feelings for me to my face, but behind my back, it is to the contrary.
As I said, I really do think the world of him, but like a little sister, not a boyfriend. Or do I? Hence my name being 'confused_lad'. I would really appreciate an opinion on this matter- as every time I see him, I've not the foggiest on what to say or do.
Thank you very much for your time, if you have bothered to read it all!
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