Hot and cold?

[ChrisH]

So, this perhaps, rather personal, though to others it may not be. So here I am.

In any case, what could be lingering below the surface here?

Lemme explain: when I'm not dating anyone, I have a high sex drive (only satiated by masturbation).

When I'm dating someone, I stop masturbating completely. There's no need to.

And yet, I don't immediately want sex from whoever I'm dating, and I figure it can wait. Basically, I'm no longer horny.

Off the top of my head, I figure this could be simply because:

1) I don't know what sex is like. (I've never had sex).

2) I have never had any desire to have NSA sex, or FWB or any other acronym for strange.


Could there be more?

I mean, when I date someone, looks only matter so much; I go for personality traits and things in common/not in common.