Why So Many Flakes?

[InbetweenDreams]

I don't know if I'm "doing it wrong" or if there's just a lot of flakes. There's really little option on other avenues of trying to find and meet people. So... I use Grindr, Hornet, Jack'd, Tinder, POF and now trying Planet Romeo which is turning out to be a pile of shite.

Being in a pretty rural area with a low gay population I often get guys who live way too far away to do anything with, seeing that I can't seem to find anyone who I can tolerate, or can tolerate me. No, no gay bars anywhere near here and I don't think that's the kind of scene I want to be in anyway.

Anyone else live in the middle of nowhere? Any ideas on how to overcome this besides telling me I should move? I kind of like being in a rural setting, seems to be a tad less crazy around here but trying to find a date seems to be difficult. I say date, I would be happy to find someone to go jog with or whatever.

That's the other thing. I guess if I had an Xbox wouldn't be too hard to find someone to do that crap with but try to find someone who doesn't sit on their ass is like waiting around for the 2nd coming of Jesus...or seems like it anyway.