Idk what to do help!!!

[Burnout420]

So I wouldn't say I was gay because I only like to look at nude men mostly to compare sizes well I made an anonymous account messaged a couple diff guys one wants to know who I am and swears up and down he wouldn't say a word well I sorta know him and I don't believe him and the second guy idk but he seems genuine but idk if he is bi so I don't know if I should take the chance of revealing myself and I'm so lost and confuse can some one please give me some advice because I don't want my ship blown out of the water because we're I live ppl are ruthless over things like this