12-29-2010, 11:22 PM
You are quite right that if nobody knows you are gay, then if any if the men you already know have feelings for you then chances are they will keep them to themselves. However there may well be no such men.
Perhaps you should try meeting other gay men (in real life as well as us). They will understand what you are going through, and you have a much better chance of finding someone who is attracted to you.
Just my tuppence worth....
Perhaps you should try meeting other gay men (in real life as well as us). They will understand what you are going through, and you have a much better chance of finding someone who is attracted to you.
Just my tuppence worth....
Fred
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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