Possible Warning Signs?

[Brandi0514]

*sigh* I am at a crossroads with this one. I've always been addressed about the 'warning signs' of a controlling relationship, but what if it appears milder (sort of) or unintentional? My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and she is my first true relationship- messing things up now is the last thing I want. But, I need to know it it's a healthy relationship. I'm always told to get out of a controlling relationship because the person will never change, but what do I do?? She tends to ask me who i'm talking to when I'm on the phone or texting, looks on my computer when i'm typing and seems to hate it when my friends are around. The part that truly bothers me is when she has friends around, I no longer exist. But when they leave, I become her world. It seems immature and hypocritical, but not entirely controlling. I'm so confused! Advice, please?