01-03-2012, 04:41 PM
Ok - I need some advice from my gay boys. I'm a straight female, recently became reconnected with a friend from HS. We had been hot and heavy on the texts/calls/messages for a month, and he was blowing smoke up my skirt like you wouldnt believe - I was his be all, end all - I am all that matters in his life now. So he drives all the way from New Orleans to see me (500 miles away). We go out for drinks, he all but rips my clothes off in the parking lot. Go out the next night; much of the same. We mess around a bit, no big deal.
Then he gets ice cold, we are suddenly 'incompatable' and I'm trying to figure a few things out. Here is the run down:
1) Career Marine, very proud of his 'man whore' status and how women just throw themselves at him (also the reason I didn't sleep with him). Certainly loves talking about it.
2) Revealed that he has spent the last year or so as a stripper in a gay club in NOLA
3) Best friend - gayest of the gay
4) Throws the word 'faggot' around to the point of making me very uncomfortable
5) Has read all the Twilight books, seen all the movies. In fact, the last time he was in town he went to some 'spa' with his sister and then to see 'Breaking Dawn'
6) Does a little more 'man-scaping' than I have observed in the past
7) Able to get a raging hard on and beg for sex, but claims that he is only able to get off with a girl on a rare occassion, because it's 'all in his head'. Gave him a championship blow job - nada. And in my entire career, I haven't lost one yet.
My gaydar is starting to go off. Sure, I'm a little broken hearted, but in retrospect, I'm wondering if it's not so much me as it is that he'd rather be with a guy. Apparently, I was his complete and total high school crush and he's been thinking about me for 15 years. And damn it, I'm still damn hot
But . . . There is part of me that thinks he came into town to see if the HS crush could do it for him as a last resort.
So - professional opinions: Gay or Nay?
Then he gets ice cold, we are suddenly 'incompatable' and I'm trying to figure a few things out. Here is the run down:
1) Career Marine, very proud of his 'man whore' status and how women just throw themselves at him (also the reason I didn't sleep with him). Certainly loves talking about it.
2) Revealed that he has spent the last year or so as a stripper in a gay club in NOLA
3) Best friend - gayest of the gay
4) Throws the word 'faggot' around to the point of making me very uncomfortable
5) Has read all the Twilight books, seen all the movies. In fact, the last time he was in town he went to some 'spa' with his sister and then to see 'Breaking Dawn'
6) Does a little more 'man-scaping' than I have observed in the past
7) Able to get a raging hard on and beg for sex, but claims that he is only able to get off with a girl on a rare occassion, because it's 'all in his head'. Gave him a championship blow job - nada. And in my entire career, I haven't lost one yet.
My gaydar is starting to go off. Sure, I'm a little broken hearted, but in retrospect, I'm wondering if it's not so much me as it is that he'd rather be with a guy. Apparently, I was his complete and total high school crush and he's been thinking about me for 15 years. And damn it, I'm still damn hot
But . . . There is part of me that thinks he came into town to see if the HS crush could do it for him as a last resort. So - professional opinions: Gay or Nay?
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