What body type is sexier?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I prefer "masculine" men.

I like muscle, but not the cut, well defined muscle one finds on the thread of male images (Stud of the Day).

Not really 'fat' but 'healthy' - thick.

I prefer men taller than me. A slightly difficult thing to achieve since I stand 6'2".

Unfortunately I am drawn to abusive men. I'm drawn to dominate mentalities, to men who equate large body-size with strength/power/control over others.

For the past 14 years I have been with a man who is opposite in just about every way from my 'type'. Shorter than me (5'10"), submissive (actually co-dependent), slender (150# and less) and far younger than me - he is 6 months younger than me.

I used to date/partner with older men (5-10 years older) larger, taller, stronger and dominate - too dominate.

My general age range has been in my decade or a tad more. Thus when I was in my 20's I was drawn to men in their 20's or their early 30's. Now I am drawn to men who are in the 40's to 50's. Needless to say, the majority of men on the Stud of the Day thread appear to be mere children to me and I have no interest in them. :biggrin:

I have so few secrets from anyone (including myself). My partner knows my real type, he also knows and I think understands that the reason why I am with him is because he is 'safe'.

My 'type' tends to be abusive, unsafe and those relationships usually ended badly (like with hospital and police involved kind of bad). Considering I have been with him for 14 years and have no real intent of moving on in the near future I think he is secure in the idea that I'm not going to go seeking 'my type'.