What turns you off the quickest?

[Drew]

I think everyone here agrees with the rude/arrogance thing. Pretty much a non-starter for everyone, gay or straight.

For me personally? I'm probably too picky about a lot of things, but I am very turned off by guys who feel they have the right to be touchy-touchy or sexually aggressive right off the bat. Not cool, and shows lack of respect for personal boundaries. Playful touching or groping is okay after the relationship has been established, not 5 seconds after introductions.

And I'm not into effeminate men. I mean, it's cool if that is how someone is tuned in with the world around them and it's an authentic representation of themselves, but it does not mesh well with me. I like my men masculine and down to earth; that's my vibe and energy.