02-14-2013, 02:51 AM
Aside from appearance, what is the one thing that a guy can do, say, or behave that will turn you off to him the fastest?
1. Be a racist ass. I am Mexican-American, not a "wetback", or "spic"! And that goes for "play-acting" too. I had one guy ask me to speak "more like a Mexican" in bed because he got off on it. Um...really?
2. Overly feminine OR overly masculine.
3. Misogynistic- Many of the people I most care about are women. I get that it is easy to fall into the "boys club" mentality in gay culture, but really? If one of the first words out of your mouth is a derogatory remark about women...I am gone!
4. Controlling and Manipulative Behavior- of any type.
1. Be a racist ass. I am Mexican-American, not a "wetback", or "spic"! And that goes for "play-acting" too. I had one guy ask me to speak "more like a Mexican" in bed because he got off on it. Um...really?
2. Overly feminine OR overly masculine.
3. Misogynistic- Many of the people I most care about are women. I get that it is easy to fall into the "boys club" mentality in gay culture, but really? If one of the first words out of your mouth is a derogatory remark about women...I am gone!
4. Controlling and Manipulative Behavior- of any type.