08-16-2012, 03:14 AM
The best first toy I've enjoyed was a slim 1 to 1.5" round, 10" long rubber/latex dildo with a suction end. It has a wavy/knobby texture. It works great in or out of the shower, it will let you experiment with "attaching" it to something so you can try not holding it and the suction end gives you a good place to control and handle it.
Life's too short to miss an opportunity to show your love and affection!