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[Bricg1970]

Well, Alex, bravo; this is never easy, which explains why you've waited so long... Your stepmother was speaking out of turn, which is probably why you denied what she was saying; it might have been different if it had been your mother or your father asking, of course.

Well, all we can do now is wish you and your family the best while you all learn to cope with this new situation, and new you. Your children will need to understand, and your wife will need to find consolation in maybe finding a new partner. Is that something you'd like to happen?

You two can decide to remain together, but sometimes the best way is to admit that separation and divorce is what is necessary. For one thing it'll give her back her liberty. You can remain friends, no doubt. But you must also expect that she'll resent you for a while.

Best wishes,
PA

My relation with her is excellent in all terms except sexually and we spend a great deal, I really enjoy staying with her, I feel like Will and Grace lately, we even talk about guys (weird). Yesterday she asked me to have sex for the last time and since I came out has been three times, I did it for her but really this time not even my imagination helped, I couldn´t concentrate, I was just waiting her to finish, so I rather have a sexless relation and the only thing she asked me is not have sex with somebody else. Is a challenge, I am very curious and I like to experiment too much.

Either way I am separating to have time and space to think what I am going to do from now on, and YES I wouldn´t mind if she finds somebody else, although, she doesn´t want me to go, and perhaps with the time we will end up together as friends sharing and taking care of each other if we don´t find our Mr Right, only the time will say.

Since I accepted and came out I started to see the world different, free of guilt and think things that I never in my life allowed me to think, and I don´t want to supress anything from now on, I am SURE and LOVE who I am for the first time in my life, I feel more confident and sometimes I am afraid because I crossing all new waters but we will survive.....