Negativity about Foot Fetishes

[BobInTampa]

Well, i think alot of folks when they hear the word fetish - whips and chains, scat and piss come to mind. So word-choice is critical when you discuss you're "turn-on's" with folks!

Also, I have several buddies who have a foot fetish and to be honest, only 1 of them has fully grasped the reality that finding a partner who fills ALL your desires AND enjoys having his feet worshiped is really, really, really low. He also had to re-wire his sexuality to be able to enjoy non-foot-related sex. Yeap. It was a challenge at first....because for so long he coudn't cum during sex unless it involved his partner's feet. In fact, he had to get some therapy to get the skills to help re-wire his mind and put his "fetish" in balance.

I, myself, have a nipple fetish - i think most folks have a sexual fetish of one sort or another.

The key is to keep it in balance with your full "toolbox" of sexual skills/likes and desires.