New Here and Finally Accepting... I think

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First, welcome to GaySpeak.

I was raised in a religious home that was very anti any sexuality except hetero and, that only if you were married so I understand what that does to you when you're questioning your sexuality.

I know, part of you mind is telling you it's wrong whatever you decide you are but, that's not the case. People can be anywhere on a whole range of sexuality and, not all of us fit one label.

For me, the deciding factor is what arouses you sexually when you see a body of that gender you like. As a gay man I can appreciated beautiful women for their beauty but, they could be the worlds most perfectly beautiful woman and I would not be aroused, on the other hand a mediocre to gorgeous man never fails to get me excited. I've got female friend whom I love as I would a sister, but it's just that, they are like family to me and, i would never consider them as a sexual partner.

Everyone is different and that's good, right, normal so whether you are heterosexual, homosexual, asexual, pansexual or, something in between or different that that, its all good. It's also good to question your sexuality and explore it. You never know what you might enjoy if you ignore what you mind and body likes.