08-27-2012, 05:39 AM
Welcome!
So, this may be the blind leading the blind and this may not mean much coming from a guy, but I feel I need to respond. I think I'm gay. Reason: Physical and sexual attraction to guys. Now I have had crushes on guys before so, it's not all just horny, but I have seen a few women that I wonder if they could a potential spouse.
You see, I liked girls and had attractions toward guys all throughout school. I pretty much said I was straight but guys were just sexy. However, as time went on, I really developed a strong interest in men. I am 34 years old and have not had a relationship with a woman or a man. I did have a girlfriend for two months in high school though. I recently accepted the fact that maybe I am gay and have made some strides toward finding out or finding a guy I could spend my time with.
I'm telling you this because I am the kind of person who will go after something that I really want. If I have no interest, I really don't pursue things. I find it interesting that at 34 years old I have had minimal interest in finding a girlfriend or wife all this time. I've been perfectly content with "eye candy" basically looking and being aroused by guys. I decided to see what this attraction to guys is all about. For the last 8 months I have spent time trying to explore my sexuality with guys. I haven't done anything sexual, but I have gone to a night club several times or joined blogs, created a profile on sites, all because I'm interested in guys. When I realized I might be gay, I jumped on it but I have had plenty of time to pursue women, but haven't.
I commend you for realizing that maybe you just married because you felt you should. That's how I feel. I think the concept of finding a beautiful girlfriend and then making her my wife would keep people from judging me. My family, who I know is questioning my sexuality, would be so thrilled and breath a little easier. I think that's what would make me get married. I could be completely wrong here. Maybe I'm just lustful toward men and need to suck it up and just meet a woman and be done. But I feel like I at least want to have a relationship with a guy because I know I really like them. Don't get me wrong women can be glamorous and I guess having one on your arm makes a man look good and earns the respect of others.
The only thing I can do now is try a relationship with a guy. The only way for you is to try to have a relationship with a woman. Who knows what will happen? Who knows what we'll find out.
So, this may be the blind leading the blind and this may not mean much coming from a guy, but I feel I need to respond. I think I'm gay. Reason: Physical and sexual attraction to guys. Now I have had crushes on guys before so, it's not all just horny, but I have seen a few women that I wonder if they could a potential spouse.
You see, I liked girls and had attractions toward guys all throughout school. I pretty much said I was straight but guys were just sexy. However, as time went on, I really developed a strong interest in men. I am 34 years old and have not had a relationship with a woman or a man. I did have a girlfriend for two months in high school though. I recently accepted the fact that maybe I am gay and have made some strides toward finding out or finding a guy I could spend my time with.
I'm telling you this because I am the kind of person who will go after something that I really want. If I have no interest, I really don't pursue things. I find it interesting that at 34 years old I have had minimal interest in finding a girlfriend or wife all this time. I've been perfectly content with "eye candy" basically looking and being aroused by guys. I decided to see what this attraction to guys is all about. For the last 8 months I have spent time trying to explore my sexuality with guys. I haven't done anything sexual, but I have gone to a night club several times or joined blogs, created a profile on sites, all because I'm interested in guys. When I realized I might be gay, I jumped on it but I have had plenty of time to pursue women, but haven't.
I commend you for realizing that maybe you just married because you felt you should. That's how I feel. I think the concept of finding a beautiful girlfriend and then making her my wife would keep people from judging me. My family, who I know is questioning my sexuality, would be so thrilled and breath a little easier. I think that's what would make me get married. I could be completely wrong here. Maybe I'm just lustful toward men and need to suck it up and just meet a woman and be done. But I feel like I at least want to have a relationship with a guy because I know I really like them. Don't get me wrong women can be glamorous and I guess having one on your arm makes a man look good and earns the respect of others.
The only thing I can do now is try a relationship with a guy. The only way for you is to try to have a relationship with a woman. Who knows what will happen? Who knows what we'll find out.
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