08-31-2012, 03:49 PM
GossamerMoon Wrote:... The other part of the question is whether there are subtle things a gay person might wear or say in public to clue in another gay person ...gaydar; i did a post on some research written up for the general public. A sample looked at images that had everything stripped off except the face. There was a better than expected un explained probability (5-10%) that some people could find the gay man. This is the gaydar?ok. It varied with the individuation's level of self awareness. This coupled with conversation, dress, posture, movement mannerisms could improve the initial 5-10%. Maybe just ask if they are family.
GossamerMoon Wrote:... I saw a reference to guys wearing a pearl bracelet or something at the gym, for example (I think it was). ...Sounds like something i would say. I live in a rural area, not very close to anything. I choose a 24hour Fitness gym next to the CapHill area. I am saying if I have to drive 30min to any one of them might as well be the gym with a higher accepting population.
-while there i put my earphones in and ignore everyone equally (have a bf)
-most gyms are accepting and quick to weed out the members with un social behaviors in a 2-3 strikes and your out policy.
-i just dont do un necessary conversation but I dont want to be too harsh to the family.
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