More troubles with my mother

[Blue]

I agree, on more levels that one, Rox and, they weren't only covert about it but that' was decades ago. WE can't let the choices others make drag us down forever, even when those choices hurt us and leave wounds deeper than any knife could cut. We have to fin a way to heal the damage they did. Just maybe, in doing that, we learn how to be there and help someone else and, maybe we open a few hearts and eyes along the way.

If we come through even the worst stronger, more resilient, more empathetic and compassionate, more understanding and a little wiser, then it's we who have gained and, they who have lost.