09-07-2012, 05:46 PM
Hello and 
to GaySpeak.
I think the whole situation, as you described it, was rather awkward. I mean what kind of person goes about asking someone they hardly know for a bj? Huh? This was, in my opinion, out of line. It might have been construed as a joke if he'd said it just once, but repeating it three times sounds more like he's bad-mannered. It's not as if you were a prostitute from whom he could make such a request, or even in an intimate situation that might have warranted it. You were watching television, minding your own business.
Is this a situation you can discuss with his brother (your friend)?? Or is that too awkward? If it's too awkward, then I think you did the right thing. The brother putting you in that kind of situation sounds rather foolish, disrespectful, or completely barmy. What could possibly make him think that you'd be in the slightest bit interested? To say the least, his attitude was cocky.
If you could discuss this with your friend (the one you've been intimate with before), then it would clear the air a bit. But you'd better find out first if he's been telling his brother about you.
take care.
to GaySpeak. I think the whole situation, as you described it, was rather awkward. I mean what kind of person goes about asking someone they hardly know for a bj? Huh? This was, in my opinion, out of line. It might have been construed as a joke if he'd said it just once, but repeating it three times sounds more like he's bad-mannered. It's not as if you were a prostitute from whom he could make such a request, or even in an intimate situation that might have warranted it. You were watching television, minding your own business.
Is this a situation you can discuss with his brother (your friend)?? Or is that too awkward? If it's too awkward, then I think you did the right thing. The brother putting you in that kind of situation sounds rather foolish, disrespectful, or completely barmy. What could possibly make him think that you'd be in the slightest bit interested? To say the least, his attitude was cocky.
If you could discuss this with your friend (the one you've been intimate with before), then it would clear the air a bit. But you'd better find out first if he's been telling his brother about you.
take care.
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