Telling my Girlfriend, Is it Good Time?

[Rawr]

Sorry to hear about your grandmother. My condolences go out to you and your family.

I haven't read the rest of the thread, so I'm sorry if my response is similar to the others. Firstly, I think it's best tell her as soon as possible. Every second you delay could be classed as time wasted. You mentioned that she said if you were, then you would have wasted two years of her life. This isn't true as I'm sure within the two years you have experience great times, and therefore it hasn't been wasteful. Not only this, but you must consider yourself as well. Every extra second is preventing you from living your life to the fullest the way you want to. Therefore you owe to her and yourself to tell her.

You've been together 2 years, it's up to you to decide how you tell her, but I would suggest telling her in person. I think she deserves that much. You also said you came out to someone previously? do they know to keep it a secret? I'm not saying stay in the closet, in fact well done on coming out! but if news were to spread, and your girlfriend found out that way, then things wouldn't be pretty. I think she deserves to be told by you and you alone.

Sorry my advice isn't great, my head feels fuzzy due to a headache. Hopefully you find it useful and if you have anymore question feel free to ask! also, welcome to Gay speak.