09-10-2012, 03:06 PM
Literally 1 day after my wife and i separated (after coming out) I began being a home nudist. Perhaps it was a celebration of my comingout and feeling free to be me, but since then i have slept naked every night and feel very comfortable walking around my house sans clothes.
As i began dating and after entering into my first gay LTR that didn't change, but like others have said, being naked wasn't a "sexual" thing as much as it was a celebration of freedom and independence.
Being naked alot also served as an incentive to get in shape. WHile i've never been a "gym rat" or obsessed with having a 6-pack, i quickly discovered i felt even better being naked when i was in shape - and that hasnt' changed. Even at 50 (yes, i know i'm older than most of you folks on this site), I feel very confident being naked because i'm in good shape. My partner and i often visit a local gay campground where you can be nude around the pool, and we take advantage of that freedom!
As i began dating and after entering into my first gay LTR that didn't change, but like others have said, being naked wasn't a "sexual" thing as much as it was a celebration of freedom and independence.
Being naked alot also served as an incentive to get in shape. WHile i've never been a "gym rat" or obsessed with having a 6-pack, i quickly discovered i felt even better being naked when i was in shape - and that hasnt' changed. Even at 50 (yes, i know i'm older than most of you folks on this site), I feel very confident being naked because i'm in good shape. My partner and i often visit a local gay campground where you can be nude around the pool, and we take advantage of that freedom!