Gay Prudes?

[BobInTampa]

I think it comes with a person's level of maturity.

For example, when i am in a business lunch meeting with a potential client and see a sexy waiter, in my mind i'm say, "Oh my what a hottie"......but my client will never know. I can talk about business, football and politics as needed in such a situation - but I'm respectful of my role and position in the company and conduct myself accordingly.

Same situation, but this time its meeting gay buddies for lunch, and yeap, sometimes i can "flame on" and say some crass wholey inappropriate statment like, "Guys, look at him...i'd crack him like a shotgun and f#@k him up the a$$" ahahah.

And then there are the post-work-friday happy hours i have (almost every friday) with a select group of co-workers who know i'm gay, love me for who i am and on any given friday i can bounce between being a filthy-mouthed trucker-esqe-somewhat-effeminate joker to entering into 10 minute diatribes about business, our company, it's managers and executives.

The real issue is having the maturity to know WHEN to say WHAT around WHO!