Must Vent... I can be good I can be good...

[GossamerMoon]

Gossamer, I'd like to suggest that you don't let your ex husband into the house. Is there a place locally where you could both go, neutral ground, like a café or diner, where the kids could be "exchanged" when they are going to be with their dad for a while?

He has no right to criticize your house and how you run it. But the best way would be for him not to be exposed to it. Forbidden grounds. No trespassing.

The kids might be unhappy with the place they live in, but then they can help out, can't they? (maybe they are too young for the moment, but they will be eventually old enough to help with the chores).

Good luck.

I wish it was that easy, but he lives three hours away. It was part of the agreement to let him stay here when visiting, because he "can't afford" a hotel room every few weeks. But I'm thinking that will have to change. ::bitch-slapping the turd--in my mind! ::