09-20-2012, 08:03 AM
I would have to squeeze by buttcheeks and grind my teeth to avoid showing my distaste if any of my straight friends ever "announced" they were straight. It would make me EXTREMELY uncomfortable.
I have never announced I was gay to anyone really except the occasional straight women who was pursuing me and that was just to be fair to her.
If you looked at me you would not know I am gay...even gay people don't know unless I want them to. .
I am not ashamed of myself at all though and am proud of who I am and instead of telling anyone I am gay...I introduce my lover as...my lover...as though ti is a non issue. Ironically...it IS a non issue when you make it one.
The key to making it a non issue for everyone else...make it a non issue for yourself. I have never had a problem being gay since the first time I realized I was.
I have never announced I was gay to anyone really except the occasional straight women who was pursuing me and that was just to be fair to her.
If you looked at me you would not know I am gay...even gay people don't know unless I want them to. .
I am not ashamed of myself at all though and am proud of who I am and instead of telling anyone I am gay...I introduce my lover as...my lover...as though ti is a non issue. Ironically...it IS a non issue when you make it one.
The key to making it a non issue for everyone else...make it a non issue for yourself. I have never had a problem being gay since the first time I realized I was.