is it necessary to come out to the world

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I don´t see the heterosexuals go around proclaiming aloud their sexuality

I've seen it done. Granted, if someone does it too often then I get suspicious.

And one of the worst things a guy can say to another guy is call him gay (and sometimes considered fighting words, as in violence). The absolute worst are those who are closeted gay who knowingly try to hide their own orientation by publicly hating on those out and proud (or even just not living by their gender roles enough). Of course such hate is another way of proclaiming heterosexual pride (pride in the dark, evil sense in this case).

ETA: when I was the victim of slut rumors guys were always coming around me and then lying about the sex they got with me so that it got back to me. I'd say (even if what they said was true) that's rubbing their heterosexuality in everyone's faces (but others don't mind as they're hets, too). That is, if I'd been a boy and they still bragged about having sex with me THEN they'd be accused of rubbing their lifestyle in everyone's faces, but if held to equal standards then those boys were doing the same.