is it necessary to come out to the world

[hank]

actually not a husband yet, ssm is illegal where i live.

I would consider it internally homophobic if you put a big effort into the walk that way dress that way if your definitely not that way.

I don't put a lot of effort in identifying my sexuality to people I am exactly who I always have been, I dress like a man, I am a man. At work I wear a uniform and that uniform is very important to my job. So I press it myself. But other than keeping a tidy appearance well groomed, and professional, I don't consider my appearance to be particularly gay, besides I am not gay, I am bi. How do stereotypical bi guys act?

Even if I was to be gay, I wouldn't fake an accent, or use my hands anymore than I currently do in conversation.

But I do agree with you efforts to hide your true self are only lies you tell your self.

I like to fish, I love the out doors. I drive a truck, so my decor reflects my interests, not necessarily my sexuality. I am demisexual so I don't tend to gawk at "sexy men or women" so why have pictures of people I don't know or exes? If I wasn't single I would not do anything to hide it if I was with a man, but I wouldn't need to tell everyone ether. If you figured it out say my lover brought me to work and gave me a kiss, okay, tell everyone it doesn't matter to me.