is it necessary to come out to the world

[hank]

I understand gay guys saying they are bi as a way to accept themselves, that's cool, I don't think its wrong I am not the least but offended by it, and more power to them. I thought I was gay all my life, the hardest person I came out to was myself. But once I accepted it I thought the confusion would end. It only got worse. All of the sudden I started thinking about breasts and women, even paying more attention to them in sociality. Perhaps I always was bisexual and just WA fixated on behavior because liking women isn't taboo, nobody ever gets shunned by society go being a flaming heterosexual, so I had to jump the tallest hurtle first.

I know how I feel about the guys I have loved, those feelings will never change even if I marry a woman, I will forever be bi.

For me it was absolutely not a transition. I am glad it makes transition easier for others, I would never condemn a gay guy for saying he is bi at first, or for always, its hard for gay men in my culture.