should on-line sites remove the HIV stat

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Most gay sites ask your HIV status. It isn't a big deal to me, considering some will lie and answer negative, when they are positive anyway.

Not that it really matters to me. If I met a great guy whom I thought would be a great partner and, he were positive, it wouldn't stop me form perusing a relationship. I'd just want to know so I know what precautions to take and, have an idea of the potential medial issues we'd have to face.

I'm not out for a one night stand, so wouldn't be risking hooking up unaware and, I'd want fresh test that I could see the results of, just to confirm either positive or negative. I'd hope he asked the same of me, just shows me that, even if he did mess up, or someone else betrayed him and he ended up positive, he cares enough about himself and me to get it out in the open before we do anything that might be risky.