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I will add another perspective to the chorus here....

I would think the ideal circumstance would be to make it a total non issue. You will be doing your son a HUGE FAVOR if you can do this because one's sexuality should be a non issue.

I have lived my life as a gay man and viewed it as a non issue and I have had a very minimal amount of angst...if any...due to my sexuality...so I know of what I speak:biggrin:

Also...as others have said...do let him come out on his own terms and in his own time. If you want to let him know you support him....make a few general comments about gay marriage being a non issue (assuming you think it is).