Looking for the Right things to say....

[Miles]

Welcome, and if only more dads were like you. Others have already given good advice, but I'll just add as long as your son knows you accept him and support him, it may be good not to push too much and let him work it out on his own terms. Not knowing the particulars of your relationship with him it's hard to tell where to draw that line, but when I told my dad he did exactly the right thing by not making a big deal out of it, because it really wasn't one. I'd still feel weird talking about it with my dad just because we don't often talk about personal things like that, but it's enough to know he supports me no matter what.