were you shy before your coming out?

[hank]

I never have been shy, aside from my sexuality, I came out in march of this year. The one thing I have been holding back all of these years. I am a leader and an extrovert, so not really shy.

Mainly the reason I kept my silence about my sexuality is because I wasn't sure, I didn't want to be gay or bi, least of all bi but, I couldn't make it go away. At one point you just accept you cannot change it, that is when I came out. Deep inside I don't like to admit but I was worried what others would say but, now my deepest regret was ever worrying about that.