10-24-2012, 11:20 AM
I think that when a big guy can be comfortable with himself and somehow have that inner confidence, it suddenly elevates them into just about the sexiest damn thing in the world 
but that's speaking from a bear fan.
I think the only thing that can change your thinking is having more physical affection from your partner. You don't have to jump straight into bed, but sex with someone you love does wonders for your confidence, and being able to please somebody that you care for. That sounds pretty mushy but honestly I was in the same situation and ended up surprised that people thought I was crazy for being so down on myself.
Your boyfriend obviously thinks so ^_^ you could try and see yourself through his eyes. Big guys can seem strong and comforting, and have a kind of power that I wouldn't swap for a whole bunch of twinks. You did well to lose weight too, so if it makes you feel better keep going x
but that's speaking from a bear fan.I think the only thing that can change your thinking is having more physical affection from your partner. You don't have to jump straight into bed, but sex with someone you love does wonders for your confidence, and being able to please somebody that you care for. That sounds pretty mushy but honestly I was in the same situation and ended up surprised that people thought I was crazy for being so down on myself.
Your boyfriend obviously thinks so ^_^ you could try and see yourself through his eyes. Big guys can seem strong and comforting, and have a kind of power that I wouldn't swap for a whole bunch of twinks. You did well to lose weight too, so if it makes you feel better keep going x
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